The Solution to New Year Resolutions

The Solution to New Year Resolutions

A group chatting.

Okay, folks! We’re almost a month into the New Year. What do we have to show so far for those resolutions? To be honest, I’m not doing the best with my resolutions and I suspect that might be the case for you, too.

Oftentimes we have a tenuous experience of carrying things through the gauntlet of our busy lives, but we have to carry things through if we are to make good on them. One thing that we often miss when making resolutions is that we don’t account for worries, or the fears that so consistently give rise to those worries, but they happen year after year.

I realize it’s starting to sound like commitments aren’t worth making, but hang in there. Let’s put some context on how we usually handle commitments. As people, we often divest ourselves of as many commitments as we can manage. We fantasize about a week, or a day, or even five minutes, where we don’t have to do anything, and can sit back and be rid of life’s problems. Other times we flip the script and urgently try to make changes in our lives like getting another job, going back to school, starting a family, or getting both kids into after-school programs. Our on-again, off-again habit of commitment is the roller-coaster a lot of us know firsthand.

So why is something so difficult, personal, and scary worth doing? Because God’s commitment to us is at the center of our lives, and we are coming into relationship with Him. At Christmas, we are reminded of the gift He gave to us. In January, He gives us strength, unifies us as a body of believers, and reminds us with His life in us that our lives are good when they are together. With God and with one another our worries and fears don’t cripple us the way they do when we are on our own. Together we can be committed to life. So at LJCC we commit to winter camp, to the season of Lent, to celebrating His resurrection at Easter, to finishing the construction on our campus, to baptisms, weddings, memorials, summer camp, beach days, more weddings, baptisms and memorials, tithing, sending people down to Mexico, all the hours of Bible studies, visiting the sick and being visited ourselves.

We want to invite you to do the same. Come and commit to a year of being closer to God, and helps us ‘taste and see that the Lord is good’ all the year through. Come to the sermon this week about how God taught a timid person to commit to much more than his timidity. Help us to see this year all the way through. And let us help you to do likewise.

About the Author

Trevor Olson Trevor Olson
Psychologist, PsyD; License No. and State: PSY 28474 California; Serves with the LJCC High School Ministry on Sundays and during the week

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